Winfred Wango Winner a Pastor and Worshiper based in Nairobi has called out people who usually thread on negativity over God’s Minister’s in this world filled with diverse opinions and perspectives, as the importance of fostering a culture of understanding and respect cannot be overstated. Unfortunately, she says there are instances where individuals invest time and energy into speaking negatively about others, tarnishing reputations and sowing seeds of discord. But urges them to reflect on the impact of such behavior and the merits of embracing positivity.
She points out that criticism and gossip not only waste precious time but also contribute to a toxic atmosphere. Spending effort to talk negatively about others can damage relationships, hinder personal growth, and create an environment where trust is eroded. Waingo points that it’s essential to consider the consequences before engaging in such behavior.
Bitterly through her Facebook post she says that the Unseen Price of Spreading Unkindness of gospel ministers when invited to events or gatherings, some individuals go beyond merely declining the invitation, they actively seek to diminish the occasion by reaching out to the host with negative comments. But what drives this behavior, and what do they gain from it? Often, it stems from personal insecurities or a misguided sense of superiority. However, the real cost is the degradation of social bonds and ere is what she had posted……..
“Wale watu u work so hard to talk bad abt others,,u waste credit to spoil someones name,,,ukiona tumealikwa you call the host to tell them vile hatuna mungu,,faida unapata ngani coz hii uduma si yetu mwenyewe anaitetea ?!!,,ama hujajua u are becoming a WITCH😂😂 Change your ways before it is too late for u,hatuachi kupost 😂,,,Hapa najua hakuna comment mob,,,let’s love one another .”
What stands out from Waingo’s message is it’s crucial for individuals engaged in this harmful behavior to reflect on their actions. Are they truly defending a cause, or are they unknowingly becoming purveyors of negativity? Choosing to uplift others instead of tearing them down is a powerful step toward personal growth and fostering a more harmonious community.
To an extent of labeling someone as a “witch” for their negative behavior may be a strong term, but it serves as a reminder of the harm caused by spreading negativity. Rather than resorting to name calling, encouraging self-awareness and promoting positive communication can create a more inclusive and understanding society.
Embracing a Culture of Love and Support
Choosing to love one another and promoting kindness is a far more rewarding path. Instead of focusing on the shortcomings of others, we can celebrate achievements, support growth, and build a community where individuals feel valued and respected. By doing so, we contribute to a healthier, happier, and more connected world.
Perhaps in conclusion, omtiti admin would say let us be mindful of the words we choose to speak. Negative speech not only damages others but also reflects poorly on ourselves. As we navigate the complexities of human interactions, let kindness be our guiding principle. Changing our ways to embrace positivity can lead to a more fulfilling and enriched life for both ourselves and those around us. //Kuwa Mtrue na Support the Good Course.//